It is not uncommon for women that cannot conceive to be depressed about not being pregnant.  The emotions accompanying infertility are vast and vary, being unique to each couple that has to face the sad reality of not being able to conceive.  While the medical community focuses on the traditional physical aspects of infertility, the emotional roller coaster for couples can be devastating.

Statistical information shows that the emotional state of people will have a direct impact on how successful conception will be for the couple.  Other studies show that 55% of couples that participate in mood/mind therapy will have a much better chance of becoming pregnant.  Women that are depressed about not being able to conceive also have a decreased chance of becoming pregnant, even with assisted means.

Infertility associated depression is not the same as other types of depression and is a combination of other emotions such as anger, grief and jealousy of other couples that can easily get pregnant.  Jealousy is most likely one of the most difficult emotions an infertile couple can deal with and there can also be guilt because one partner can feel as if the other is being cheated.  Obsession can also be a common emotion facing an infertile couple, having a baby is the only thing that matters and it haunts them constantly.

Depressed about not becoming pregnant is an almost normal part of infertility treatment and must be dealt with effectively in order to overcome.  When a woman faces each month with building suspense and has a negative pregnancy test result, it can make her feel like a complete failure.  An infertile couple will struggle from feelings of loneliness, isolation and even have a crisis involving faith, all of which are normal and something most will also endure in the quest when trying to conceive.

Fertility treatments do not affect men the same way in which it does women because they do not endure therapy each day and are not facing the possibility of having a menstrual cycle each month.  Trying to conceive a baby and enduring feelings of failure and other emotions can either build up a couple or tear them apart.  By keeping a positive focus on the goal of parenthood, a couple can face up to infertility with the right attitude and eventually conceive the baby they have always desired and not become depressed about not being pregnant.